I'm a Marine and a Solder I was active duty from 03-07. After I left active duty I joined the National Guard. I've deployed 4 times total 2 with the Corps and 2 with the Guard. My wife is in school. She wants a divorce because to keep the bills paid I needed to take a contractor job in Afghanistan. I'm now 2 months into a 12 month contract and, she wants to leave me. I haven't slept for 4 days and only eaten 1 mean in the last 60+ hours. I need help on how to fix my marriage. I'm headed home on emergency leave due to suicidal thoughts. She is dating a guy and has been for about a month now. We have 2 children together and been married for 4 years on our third deployment. She doesn't know I'm coming home. Please give me some advice.